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🏠Based in New York long-term. New York professional studio In-person TJ, 🉑⭕️, online, selling original 🧦. ☎️Chat consultation, follow first, I'll follow back soon, state your purpose directly, to avoid wasting each other's time. ‼️Circle friends with no financial ability or who can't accept after consultation, I hope after you grow we can play well together. 🖇️About work, I usually have a job, just with a bit more free time, I strongly love SM, so try not to book sessions last-minute. ✈️About touring training, now busy with work and rarely go out, touring will be posted in dynamics. 📝Sometimes on a whim I write some copy, if you have good copy we can exchange. 🚫About private sub. Don't ask, asking means I don't accept, we've never met, isn't it ridiculous to ask this directly? 🎻Hobbies, besides SM, I like travel, listening to songs, shopping, food. 🏦As for money, I'm a common person, I can't transcend the secular, so talking about money is the most solid and simplest. 💜You also don't need to feel that because you've given something, something will happen. The circle stops at the circle, I'll earn money myself, I'll drive my own car, other people's is ultimately other people's, I won't covet it. 🧡About the circle, it's just a game, pure female S, game content via DM. 💕What I give you is not only acceptance of private fetishes, but also a kind of guidance for you toward openness under the sunlight… Height 166cm Weight 54kg Cancer
Many people have no concept of a long-term Dom-sub relationship, thinking it's just being a 🐶 all the time and that's it. Actually, the core of a truly stable Dom-sub relationship isn't SM itself, but things outside SM, economic conditions, marriage and love choices, self-awareness… And a clear, solid self-awareness is the most important — you need to build a high degree of identification with your own m attribute, and unity between social awareness and self-awareness. 🙂
Actually making zongzi isn't hard: prepare rope and leaves, wrap the glutinous rice ball, remember to expose some glutinous rice, tie the rope tight, repeatedly pinch the glutinous rice part with your hand; when white glutinous rice flows out of the zongzi, the zongzi is successfully made. If after pinching no glutinous rice flows out, maybe the zongzi is too nervous
What you pursue is not only SM, but also facing those unbearable corners of your heart and how to obtain peace and freedom……
Play is sometimes necessary for people; people are often in a game, consciously or unconsciously. This game may be imposed on you by society, or it may be one you unwittingly took on yourself. SM can to some extent also be understood as a game of life — of course, it exists more mainly in the hearts and minds of a group of people. This is not something the word "game" can define…
For a newbie m, the biggest obstacle is nothing more than that most people find it hard to communicate well and appropriately. For a session, how to openly express your preferences and taboos, how, within the limited time of one session, to experience the most desired feeling among your many preferences, and how to reasonably discuss with the s within the code of obedient conduct — all of that is quite important. Of course, except for those who want to play everything and circle-play... 😂
I think SM is not erotic; at its root it's trauma from personal growth and self-redemption. Every whipping between the whipper and the whipped is a kind of atonement/redemption for the self. If it's not nature, like genetic influence, I think it's hard for a person who grew up happily in a happy family to develop SM/DS tendencies… Often it's a cycle of pleasure/sense of security produced by abusing/being abused in childhood, leading to dependence on it — the underlying tone is actually quite sad —————————————————————
Those who like shackles and bondage are usually two extremes: those whose lives have no ripples and crave being oppressed, and those who are normally under great pressure and crave release. So what's with complaining it's heavy after wearing it for two minutes 😓
Watch the clouds roll and unfold, see the tides rise and fall…
I like, in this kind of humid, hot weather, slowly rubbing my sweat-soaked stockinged feet on your face…
I remember a close friend once told me she liked heavy rain days, especially just before the downpour. At the time I thought it was strange. After many years, I realized what she actually looked forward to and liked wasn't the extreme weather itself, but a sense of freedom and disorder that extreme weather brought her. Henri Lefebvre said the most hidden oppression in modern life doesn't come from some centralized system, but from the repetition of daily life. Thinking of this, I also understand why so many fellow enthusiasts like to indulge in these one or two hours. When your life becomes like a machine running on daily routine, a session can let you escape the boring, repetitive life and just indulge in a moment — you'd sink into it without hesitation, wouldn't you?
Poetry and distant places can never beat compromise, because compromise has ten thousand kinds of needs and pains, while poetry and distant places have only one kind of happiness...
What I give you is not only acceptance of your private fetishes, but also a kind of guidance toward being open under the sunlight… …
When boundaries have been drawn, it also means that within those boundaries you are safe, you are protected. It is precisely because of this baseline sense of safety that it becomes possible to challenge, to taste the charm of danger~
You, blindfolded, lying back on the rack, limbs forcibly fixed in one posture, every rotation of the machine tugs at a nerve somewhere in you, until you give up your fearless struggle, and in its place……… is an unprecedented relief, right……
Whether controller or controlled, the original intention is nothing more than satisfying selfish desires. Burning, alluring desire will eventually make people sink into it. But desire is not love…
Whenever I wear stockings in scorching weather, I always feel the sweat on my feet is a bit cool, and instead the summer sandals always have an indescribable smell…
When the gaps between my toes touch the tip of your nose, it's as if a nerve is touched, especially when they completely fit against your whole face — every rub is like a massage, until the stickiness on my feet dissipates… Switch to the other foot and continue…
When I hear fellow enthusiasts complain that time passes too quickly, I always fantasize about a scene like this, letting you curl up in a small dark space; only when I use the chair do I turn on the light, fix you under the chair, and after using it, let you keep curling up inside, turn off the light and leave… This is what's called light affecting the flow of time, I guess 😂
The so-called game began when your mind was hazy, and is also the obsession you can't shake off.
I really enjoy when my heel plugs you there, it's like forming some kind of bond with you, every movement of my foot tugs at your taut nerves, until your consciousness fades …………
I hope when you kneel before me, you can take off your mask. Because here you don't need any disguise.
When your whole body is bound and you can't move, controlling and squeezing, controlling and squeezing, nonstop…… what will happen?
The distant place is far, the steps never stop.
What most people in the circle call worship is nothing more than a week or two of enthusiasm, two or three days of desire, one day of fluttering, and the dull emptiness after release…
Fellow enthusiasts often ask what sensory deprivation is? By the circle's explanation, imagine when your whole body is tightly bound with bandages, only your nostrils left to breathe, in an environment with no light and no sound, for the first ten minutes your thoughts will be chaotic, anxious and irritable; after it lasts half an hour, you will enter a certain state — selfless, egoless, your five senses numb. At this time, stimulating a certain part of you will infinitely amplify the sensation………… If…………
Wishing everyone a happy Qixi Festival! 🙂
It had been muggy for a long time, and finally a heavy rain came, I couldn't resist stepping through the water, my stockings discarded directly, if you were beside me, my feet would dry on your face …
Compared with stepping on the ground, resting them on you is more comfortable~
👠 Developing a newcomer: watching an innocent, cute little sub who represses himself and dares not express himself, slowly go from shyly "only listening", to gradually daring to say words like sub and obedience out loud, to slowly listening as I naturally talk about more sensitive, special words — achieving a kind of "desensitization training" where he's no longer ashamed to express desire. It's also a very interesting thing. 🤭
Play is sometimes necessary for people; people are often in a game, consciously or unconsciously. This game may be imposed on you by society, or it may be one you unwittingly took on yourself. SM can to some extent also be understood as a game of life — of course, it exists more mainly in the hearts and minds of a group of people. This is not something the word "game" can define…
If there is a Peach Blossom Spring in your heart, where is not among water and clouds?
Is SM really the home for your soul? It's just an outlet for the exhaustion of fighting this world alone…
You were so hesitant and fidgety that it made me feel like training you in public was a very embarrassing thing. Probably the staff were also being considerate of your feelings — it was the first time I had a cup of coffee that took over twenty minutes to make…
Rarely meet fellow enthusiasts who like white stockings; wearing them once in a while, they look pretty good, and I feel my mindset becomes gentler
May all good things come as promised!
👑 A philosopher once said, when you're in a trance, all unhappiness will be forgotten, just keep stretching and stretching like this, stretching until you lose control, stretching until a fist can fit in, stretching until…… 🐶 You look up and say, "May I ask who said that" 👠 "Me"
The first milk tea of autumn 🧋, half autumn wind, half clear sweetness…
When asked about the preferences of a little sub who came to a real-life session for the first time… "I like licking mouth ulcers, pressing on bruises, and savoring certain moments over and over…" A little sub, lying on the ground, stroking his swollen buttocks, answered tearfully……………🤭
A touch of vermilion between the lips, this kind of red charm is the most captivating… ❤️
The experience you long for is a state where you can lay down your burdens, be bound in front of a mirror and unrestrainedly show yourself in all kinds of poses — compared with shyly and awkwardly disguising yourself, that might make it easier to find release.
May we live long together..
Freedom is a luxury hope, because you can't let go of other desires...
Sessions available to book during the National Day holiday 🉑 Sessions available to book during the National Day holiday 🉑 Sessions available to book during the National Day holiday 🉑 🤭🤭 Important things must be said three times ‼️
If the heart seeks nothing, wherever the wind passes is freedom 🍃
After a session ends, I usually chat a bit with fellow enthusiasts, which lets me glimpse people's sexual troubles. The most common type of question is often about self-perception or relationship perception, for example: I like such-and-such, others all say such-and-such, does that mean I'm not an m/sub? My relationship with my Dom / Mu / boyfriend / girlfriend is always such-and-such now, does that mean we're not xx? Actually………… (to be continued)
[Continued] Actually, you really don't need to care too much about how the outside world defines things, nor about other people's opinions. You yourself are your own standard. There are thousands upon thousands of people in the world, and countless couples in relationships — they can't all be the same. What matters is exploring clearly what you like and what you need, figuring out what the other person likes and wants, being honest with each other, communicating rationally, and managing it seriously. Only when you stop measuring yourself and your relationship by outside standards, and instead look at yourself or the relationship from your inner feelings (comfortable, at ease, excited, or conflicted, repressed, powerless?) can you truly enjoy this happiness.
Clear skies, I didn't know summer was gone One rain, then I knew it was deep autumn
First, a sub is not a personality, it's more like a tendency, second, a person's tendency has little to do with what kind of person he is, Rousseau loved sp, Gu Long also liked being trampled by beauties. Furthermore, what kind of person everyone is or wants to become is everyone's personal right, I respect and support everyone's tendency, I won't be prejudiced because he is obsessed with breathing in YW, this is also what every SM/Dom should realize…😊
In performing arts, a word is often mentioned: sense of belief. You sincerely believe in the authenticity of this role and character relationship. (At least in that moment) Actually Dom/sub is the same, it needs both sides to have a solid sense of belief in this relationship, the stronger the sense of belief, the deeper you can experience the spiritual joy in it. Otherwise, it's just the simple stimulation of "opening an app, matching a stranger and playing a game".
👑👠 Shibei, New York 🎉🎉